Build a Great Personality, Be a Perfect Person

                 

                                          
You are a good person, helpful, caring and friendly. But people don’t love you or respect you. They avoid you. Maybe they use you only in needs. Surely it’s a great disappointment to you and you don’t want it. You want to be loved by all and you want to be in a position of respect too.

Maybe you have some faults too. Maybe you need to change few things to change the situation. Don’t change yourself, that will be worse for you, and that will destroy your own identity. All you need to change is few aspects, and you need to add something to your personality.

Here are some tips to build a great personality and become a perfect person:

Be polite, but not weak:

You must have politeness. You should be polite to everyone and in every situation, but be careful that your politeness must not be taken as weakness by the people. In fact, be careful that politeness actually doesn’t turn to weakness. Be polite and be strong.

Suppose something unfair is happening in front of you. Don’t show such politeness to make people think that you are accepting it. Speak politely but strongly and handle the situation. Don’t be rude, but don’t be weak.

Be friendly, but maintain distance:

Be friendly to everyone, be cooperative. But don’t be so close to people, even not to your good friends. Talk friendly, go outing, have fun but maintain distance. Don’t talk about all your personal affairs.  You need to understand what should be said and what not. Otherwise you might be used by your friends.

Suppose, you can talk about your interest, likes and dislikes, but don’t talk about your family matters, never talk about your weakness, your relationship with someone etc. You can say which restaurant you like and what is your favorite menu there, but don’t say how often and with whom you go there.

Speak out your heart, not everything:

Always speak out your heart. Say what you think is right. But don’t do it in case of everything.

Suppose, if you are asked to give your opinion about anything, just speak out what you are thinking. But don’t speak about anything that can harm you anyhow. For example, never speak to anyone about someone else’s faults.

Be confident, not arrogant:

Have confidence on yourself. Be confident always and about everything. Have faith in yourself. But don’t be arrogant.

Suppose, if you participate in any competition, have confidence that you can compete well, but don’t boast and don’t show pride thinking or saying that you are the only one eligible to win. 

Think pure, think positive:

Have purity in thoughts. Always think pure. Never let any impurity touch your thoughts. Don’t be influenced by others’ evil ideas and thoughts. Don’t involve yourself in evil thoughts. That will lead you to evil deeds. Think positive and don’t be negative, don’t give up. Hope for the best always. Find something positive in a negative matter too.

Suppose you are transferred to another city. Don’t be upset. Find something positive in it, like you are getting a chance to live in a new city and you’ll meet lots of new people, visit new places, have new experiences. That’s fun. Isn’t it?

Speak nicely, design your style:

Speak nicely so that your speech catches people’s attention. Beautiful way of speaking can make your personality attractive to others. Speak in one language. Never mix words from other languages in it. Remove local accent from your speech. Speak correctly and properly. Design your own style of speaking, don’t try to follow or imitate anyone.

Dress Simple, but dress smart:

Dress is an important part of personality. Wear simple, smart and nice dresses, according to the place, time, weather, your choice, personality etc. Don’t wear anything only because it’s in trend, create your own style and wear a dress which fits you and is perfect for you. Dress smartly. Create your own style instead of following others. 

Smile always, but not like a fool:

Always keep a smile on your face. But don’t laugh like a fool. Don’t laugh in silly matters, don’t laugh loud hearing jokes; only give a slight smile. Smile in such a way that it doesn’t make people think you’re funny or fool, but it makes them believe you have a great personality and they start to respect you.